is it selfish?

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So my boyfriend and I are currently in two different states because of school and he keeps trying to make me decide and choose between him and finishing school because he can't do long distance for 9 more months am I being selfish for wanting to finish school? I'm just so hurt and stressed out somehow he turns everything on me and makes everything my fault and then throws it in my face every time we argue about me being the one who moved when we broke up I just don't know what to do

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Men come and go, but no one can take an education from you ever.

And if he can't make it through 9 months of hardship, then how is he gonna make it through ANYTHING tough in a relationship? They are not easy forever!

Naw girl he already proved you can't depend on him and he can wait or he can move on.

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In my opinion you should never give up school to be with a guy. If he wants to be together why can't he he stop school? Best situation would be if one of you could transfer to the others school if it had the same program. But do you really want to make a life altering decision with the end result of being with all guy who makes you choose between your education (which is you future) and being with him. If he truly cared he would support you in wanting you to finish your education as much as you hooefully support him finishing his education. It will benefit both of you if you have good educations that can lead to good careers.

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NO FINISH SCHOOL!! Your education is most important!

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He's the one being selfish.

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Finish school & dump him. The fact that he wants you to quit school just shows he doesnt have your best interest at heart

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Don't give up success for a guy because if you guys split , you won't have anything to pull yourself out of it .

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Finish school if he can't wait let him move the hell on, you're working on building your future and if you quit school to move with him then what he'll talk shit and out you down because you're working endless job and not a career. Nah girl so what's best for you and finishing your schooling. Hopefully he'll wait and understand that school is important.

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You are not being selfish. Not trying to be mean but don't give up school for a boy. Your building your future and your future is more important then a boy right now. And if he can't realize that you need to finish school then maybe it wasn't worth it anyways. If he wants to be with you and cares about you he wouldn't be making you make this decision.

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Finish school!!! It's only like 9 months, he can wait if he really love you...

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finish school definitely! dump his ass.. there are so many gentlemen out there that worth the wait. he is obviously not a very smart guy for wanting u to choose between him and school 🤔

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