Is it possible to hate your husband???

My husband is just sitting there and I'm currently 7 months pregnant with our kid. We have two other children and he doesn't help with anything. He is glued to his phone amd nothing else matters. I talk to him he ignores me completely . We were suppose to go on a date for our 5 yr anniversary but he can't find any one to watch the kids. How the fuck do you find someone to watch our kids while I am at work and freakin leave with your friends and doesn't come home till 6am . I really don't understand his way of thinking I can't talk to him .tf what do you think?btw he works during the day I work nights and it sucks the only day I habe off ge doesn't try hard enough to have us time. Last night when I was at work come home to find out he left my kids and went with his friends and on top of that showed up at 6 am!!!!