seriously???

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Why is it that every post that's on here that is a female asking a question that is involving sex or about sex and all there's females commenting rude and unnecessary tone comments. Someone doesn't know one little thing about sex and they get told that if they don't know everything about sexual things that they shouldn't be sexual at all. Like is this app not where us females can go to ask questions about our period and sex related things and maybe just a little support and all? Just because we don't know about EVERYTHING that's sex related doesn't mean we shouldn't be having sex. If that were the case than none of us women should be having sex. Like seriously stop being rude on here and be nice. We're all either young adults or adults. Let's act like it at least.

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That's the thing there's a lot of girls who are not adults on this app also who don't understand how sex or getting pregnant works. It's best to learn beforehand and be educated. Than coming on here after having unprotected sex wondering if it's possible to be pregnant. A lot of the time it's just people being blunt not necessarily rude.

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Knowing the basics is completely necessary. Ive said on multiple basic sex questions that if they don't know the answer then they shouldnt be having sex which is true. I understand some people have shitty sex ed  etc but if you don't know the basics of how things work & how to protect yourself then you shouldnt be doing it. If you don't know how to operate a car or the basic rules of the road then you shouldnt be driving on it

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Why would anyone have sex if they're not properly educated on how to keep themselves and their partner(s) safe and protected?? They should 100% be informed beforehand. Too often we see girls on here freaking out about possibly being pregnant because they didn't find out that precum can get you pregnant until after they have already had unprotected sex. Being misinformed is how accidents happen. And they can SO easily be avoided. It's not being rude it's being realistic

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Most of those questions come from girls who are very young 14-16 and they are very misinformed about sex, therefore if they come asking questions about things that should be very obvious if your being sexually active, then I don't have a problem telling them that they shouldn't be doing those things if they don't understand how they work. They're still kids and they still need guidance. As a mother I would tell them they're too young. Not give them all the answers and wish them the best of luck. Kids need to be told no sometimes. They're brains are not developed well enough to make responsible and educated decision at that age. That's why they have parents. And if their parents aren't going to tell them not to do those things then I have no problem saying it.

seriously???

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