So, hypothetically.. you are in a relationship and it becomes physical for a bit, the physical one has always had mother abandonment issues and grew up w a violent towards woman father.. .. they eventually go to a dr and gets diagnosed bipolar and prescribed medication they take faithfully as well as starting therapy.. do you believe you could work through this issue ? Could it be forgiven and worked through? Or do you think once violent - always violent?

Obvsly, the details are vague because im just curious of general opinion