rude people

I only went to her for one thing but she turned that one thing into a showdown. She said, "I guess your daughter looks like him?" And I said, "no, people tells me she looks like me." So she says," If you stick your own kind you wouldn't be going through this and where is your daughter father at now?" 
Little does she knows my situation, all she knows was that I couldn't live where I was living 
I'm black and the guy was Hispanic (the lady was also Hispanic)
I made a lot of poor decisions last year but she had no right to be rude like that. It was hard enough learning the guy I got knocked up by lied about his real age which he's now 37 (I got pregnant at 17), his name,and he also have a wife and two kids.