I am very amazed afer reading a topic alot of people find it rude to make a babyshower after the first baby that is only meant for the first baby i am very surprise in my culture friends and family we dont think that way this is my fourth pregnancy and last (✊pink promise lol)and I did a shower for all of them only the first one was a surprise made by fam the rest were made an organized by me I think all babies are special and diferent in every way and mom always needs a little happy time with friends and fam before the big day comes