Not getting regular sex

Should I feel ugly and not attracted to my boyfriend because he's not having sex with me on a regular? I can legit be naked and touch on him and he will tell me to chill. Also, I tried waking him up to head or putting my hands in his pants while he was falling asleep and he's like get your hands out of there. It really hurts my feelings and makes me feel unattractive. Plus, im not that experienced at all so I can really be sensitive because I want to please him and at the same time I want to be pleased. I have no idea what to do. 😣😣😣😣 can somebody give me any advice??