Has your SO cheated?

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If so, how did you find out?

*update* so I don't have any solid proof but here are my reason for suspicion other than my gut feeling.

1.  Constantly bringing up a certain 3 exes.

2. He has throw away phone I know nothing about

3.  New moves in the bedroom

4. Commented about cheating with my Friend

5.  Anytime cheating is brought up through others (tv, friends, etc) he justifies it.

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My ex cheated on me many times and I stupidly took him back. First time was I was playing with his phone and saw a text from a name I recognized as my friends gf. I open it and read it. Still remember it after 10 yrs. he wrote " I hope you're not mad at me for asking for sex but I really wanted to." She didn't reply. I was furious, threw his phone at him and walked out of the house. Fast forward a couple of years and he did it again but this time using my private photos I sent to him to be used to get photos of a female from an email. What triggered it was, we were at an Ob appointment for our son and he got an email that came across saying "hey babe got any pics today?" Now I knew his password into his email so naturally they had me pee in a cup so I logged in while there. Read EVERYTHING of a two month on going thing. Again I was livid, told him to stay out of my life and our child's. well stupid me forgave him. He did it three more times with the same woman. Fast forward 4 more years and I fell in love with my current bf and yes we had an affair, no I will not apologize for it. It saved me from 10 years of abuse. Every person has a story and each person has a different version but I wouldn't trade my story for anything cause I'm now onto my newest chapter.

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A high school 'boyfriend' cheated on me because I wouldn't have sex with him. We'd been dating less than 3 months. I found out because a friend saw them together kissing and told me. He came clean when I confronted him. I don't consider him an ex though- I kissed him once and we had one actual date.

If my boyfriend ever cheated on me he wouldn't be my boyfriend anymore. I don't give second chances to liars.

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Yes. I found the text messages when he forgot his phone one day. It has been... Trying to say the least. We've been together six years and are married with a baby. He admitted it when I confronted him and said his reason (not his excuse, he knew he didn't have one and that he was 100% wrong) was that the pressure of taking care of our family by himself got to him. When I got pregnant, I literally lost my form of income the next week along with my insurance. I had a high risk pregnancy. I had to have emergency surgery a couple weeks after my son was born. We weren't spending literally ANY time together. Bills and problems were piling up and he didn't want to talk to me about it because he didn't want me to see him as being "weak." He was never physically intimate with anyone, but he had an emotional affair and that was crushing enough.

He has been very committed to proving to me that it won't happen again. He knows I'll leave if it does. We've been working very hard on being more open and honest with each other and even though its still really hard, I feel like in the end we're going to be a better couple for it. We're relearning how to communicate in a healthier way.

It's shitty, but it happens. What he did was awful, but sometimes good people make bad decisions. People make mistakes. He hurt me and he knows that. But we still log each other and we made a commitment to stay together, so we're trying. Not just for us, but for our son too. Infidelity is SO hard to get past and not all relationships can be saved after someone cheats. But I honestly and truly believe we can work through this as long as both of us keep putting in the effort.

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Did some minor 🕵️‍♀️work and it was all there. People get sloppy when they get away with it. Texts and browser history/emails something ends up popping up eventually. Plus you literally "just know"

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Going on 10 years and going strong. No, he hasn't. He never would because he's not that kind of man. He knows how that would impact our three kids and we have a damn good marriage and relationship. He's not stupid enough to blow it.

My ex did, a lot. Wasn't too hard to figure out. Trust your gut. You don't really need proof. Once you have the gut feeling and the trust is gone, he relationship is over anyway. Just walk away.

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Had an ex that flirted with girls infront of my face, slapped their asses, flirted with a couple of my cousins and the icing on the cake he ended up getting this other girl pregnant so I decided it was about time I stopped being a fool.

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With your update, he is most definitely cheating on you. 100% guarantee it.

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Well I had a feeling for a while that he had cheated but I had nothing to prove it. So then my work got a new guy and I immediately recognized his name as the girls ex boyfriend. This girl was my boyfriends "good friend" and anytime I questioned them, he would be pissed. So I started talking to him and he found out who my boyfriend was and made a comment on how his ex was too close to him for his comfort. He tried to take it back but at that point I basically forced him to tell me. I went home and confronted my boyfriend that day. He tried to lie to me but I told him I knew everything. So he told me. I went through his phone a few times after I found out and I found a loooot of girls he was messaging and trying to "hang out" with, buy them dinner, make them dinner, etc. so I decided I couldn't trust him and didn't stay. I found out one of the girls was 20 days before I gave birth to our daughter and I don't know why he cheated because our relationship didn't change and I never acted differently.

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In a sense i guess, yes. When we first got together everytime my phone went off he always wanted to see who it was. He would always have a password on his phone, i didnt at first. So one time while i was taking a shower, i left my phone in the room and when i came out he goes psycho on me saying why am i sending friend requests to guys and i'm like what are u talking about. So he shows me my phone and it said that some guy accepted my friend request wgich i had sent since before we even got together so i deleted my whole profile cux i didnt want the drama. Then after a while i started asking him about his and if he had any girls to which obviously he said no, it was just family. Well fast forward i was pregnant with outlr twin girls, i decided to make another facebook to which it was strictly family and he popped up on it so curiosity got the best of me and when i checked out his friends nothing but bitches with their asses and titties out!!! So when he got home i went off on him and he said he was supposedly gonna delete them. So then about a 6 months later we were drinking in the living room and he was already pretty fuhked up and i hear his phone fall out of his pocket. I remember his daughter one time saying aloud what his password was and when i got into his phone i checked his fb again and their was still the same bitches and even more. It even said 16 people accepted your friend requests and i was just so devastated and piss. So i woke his drunk ass up and was like wtf is this all about and ge had the balls to say well its cux i needed attention and i just wanted to show off to my family. Mind u, i was constantly giving him attention, we had sex everyday, AND on top of that i held the household down!! I was busting my ass off at work, and still had time to come home cook, clean, take care of my kids, PLUS his other 2 kids and on top of all that i was going through ppd which he knew about. So i stupidly forgave him and then fast forward to about another 6 mont

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I found text messages in his phone and he was starting to get irritated easily and he's normally a very laid back guy doesn't even cuss and he started working really long hours ( it works in a warehouse so hours change depending on demand and inventory) and would hide his phone and started locking everything phone laptop...

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