Anal?

Question

My BF wants to try anal tonight but I don't know anything about it? Please comment experiences/ advice?! Thanks ladies

Answer

Make sure you're completely relaxed! The more turned on you are, the better because you're less likely to tense up. Tensing up will cause your sphincter to contract and it'll be harder for him to get in thus causing you unnecessary pain.

Missionary or flat on my stomach are usually my preferred positions for it. It's easiest to start flat and work your way up to missionary, doggystyle or girl on top. I actually have a step by step guide I give to my girlfriends who want to try! Pretty fool proof! 
Start with fingers or a small toy. USE LUBE!! My favorite is called Liquid Silk, I found it at CVS. It isn't too thick and it doesn't dry up quickly. It feels very similar to your own natural wetness. Do not use too much or it will cause him to lose some friction/sensitivity. Add a little bit at a time if you feel like you need more. Lie on your stomach but with your butt lifted, legs apart. Have him rub the outside with his fingers, slowly go in with one finger and eventually add a second. I find that 3 fingers are usually uncomfortable but a dick is smoother and more comfortable. 
When you feel like you're ready, put your butt down a bit, legs together and lie flat. Have him straddle your legs and start again with the previous directions but using his dick instead of fingers. (Rub slowly on outside. When you're ready, have him slowly inch in. It's best if he slips in from an angle and not directly just shoving it in.) His rhythm is key! Some people prefer it fast, some prefer slow, just make sure they are smooth strokes and not jerky. I personally like fast in the beginning and then slow towards the end.

Rubbing your clit can also ease some of your anxiety! Some of my best orgasms have been from rubbing myself during anal! 
DO NOT RUSH INTO IT! If it starts to hurt, go back a step until you're ready to continue.

Good luck! 😋

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