I am 30, he is 34. We are trying to move forward with our future, marriage, babies, etc. I am not sexually outgoing, I love having sex with him, but we have a very physical life style and we both work extremely hard. A lot of the time I feel too tired for sex or I'm asleep before he comes to bed. He gets upset with me, that I don't initiate sex, and feels like I am not attracted to him. (Which is not the case at all, I had a huge crush on him in high school and it never went away!). I know part of it is our lifestyle, and I wonder how much I can't attribute to BC? I have never been on it until last year when we started dating. I hate that I make him feel that way... anyone have any suggestions or advice (jumping his bones his not a necessary comment 😜). I desperately want a baby, my baby fever is killing me!

Thanks in advance