I don't want to loose him

Literally some of the stuff my boyfriend says makes me so depressed feeling I don't think he realizes what he says hurts me as much but it really does .. he blames everything on me 
He doesn't want me to get a job or hangout with my front or have a fucking life . And tonight we went for like the first time ever !!! And I guess he caught my MOMS DATE looking at me the wrong way "he says" and he blamed it on me for being to drunk and not paying attention and now he never wants to go out ever . I'm 21 I want to enjoy my life with someone have fun with someone and he's 26 all he wants to do is play basketball and call of duty everything else he gets bored with or doesn't care about ..