I'm a 21 yr lesbian who lives with her gf and gf's family. Her sister just had a baby and all I can think about is how I just want my own. I know my gf isn't ready because 1) we live with her family, 2) we not married, and 3) we are broke. I just wish that the circumstances were different so I can be in TTC mode but I can't. Idk how to stop/control my feelings. Any advice/tips??