Anyone's sex life revolve around alcohol?

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My husband and I almost only have sex if one of us has had a drink.. even just 1.

We are both nervous to make the first move without that drink. And I know it is insane we've been together for 7 years. But  that is how it has always been and we've come accustomed to it. So we would maybe have sex once (maayyybe twice) a week on the night we drink..
We just know that no drink means go straight to bed.

But like right now we are going to the beach in 2 weeks so are in a super health kick and working out, so also no alcohol at all, and we haven't had sex in almost a month at this point.

I also think my husband has a pretty low sex drive so it doesn't really matter to him..

Is there anyone else out there like us or is this just absurd?

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I can understand it, but after 7 years? Perhaps trick him? You get yourself an alcohol free beer. Put it in a glass and he sees you drinking a beer. Then seduce him. Perhaps it adds an edge for you knowing that you're cheating the protocol 😉. See how that goes.

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That's crazy ! Super bad for your health too. I'd be an alcoholic ! You shouldn't definitely be able to have sex without alcohol in your system with your own husband

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Do some activities that build intimacy. Wear things that are sexy at home. There are little things you can do for yourself that makes you feel sexy that I turn will turn him on.

Lastly, communicate to your husband. You are married, he's it for life. You need to build that intimate relationship with him again.

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Maybe he has low testosterone? That can decrease sex drive...has he been checked? 
I think the issue here is his low sex drive and not the fact that it takes a drink to do it. You guys have just found a way around it and it happens to be with some liquid courage. Def see if he's willing to get his T checked.

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My brother and his wife drink red wine every night to relax after a long day. To forget what the kids did. It's their sanity lol. They say a glass of red wine is the equivalent to an hour at the gym. I say switch to red wine lol is it that he needs to feel drunk or uses that as an excuse or that gives him the courage or stamina or he feels guilty or taking advantage of you or grew up super religious, or maybe that's how the priests did it if he was molested as a child. Or how his parents did it.  it has to be something as to why he needs it that way. Girl just masturbate. Pop on some xvideos.com find something you like and rub your clit. At least you are guaranteed an orgasam. Maybe some therapy would help. Maybe the alcohol dialates the blood vessels or has erectile dysfunction it has to be something. Liquid courage to make the first move. Who knows.

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This is not normal at all

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I get mad if we go longer than four days 😂