I'm 20 and my husband is 21. We have been married for almost 2 years and before we were having sex nonstop, almost every time we saw each other, but now I'm wanting it nonstop like before but he does not. So since we have been married we do it once a month because he says no every time I ask. Most of the time I have to give him something (bj) just so he can be frisky back. I just need others telling me that this is ok? I guess?