"Every Female is a little gay"

I'm bi, always have been even before I knew what 'sexuality' even was. I'm with a guy atm who keeps saying every girl is a little gay and I so don't agree, not only because it's just so not true but also I think it makes me feel so not special and I don't mean in a 'I kiss girls for attention way' but the way he says it. For example having beautiful pitch black hair and then some dudes like "eh heaps of people got black hair, you ain't special.." THOUGHTS?!