nipple piercing & tongue

Sophie
Hey girrrrrls
So I've got 2 things on my mind..
First one being, I got my nipple pierced last week and I know it's sensitive for about 10 days after getting it done. Do any of you know how long until it's pain free.. so I can message about with my boy and it not hurt?
Also, I work in a pub and a regular came in and saw my tongue piercing and said 'your boyfriend won't like that. No boys like tongue piercings even if they say they do' 
Now this has kind of put me off a bit, now I feel like this whole time he hasn't liked it and I thought he did! Do any of you girls have any advice on this? Do guys actually like them or aren't fazed by them?