WHATS UP WITH THIS!!? help!

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Soooo... my boyfriend said this shit to me, which is honestly not like him because he usually posts pictures and me and us all over his accounts and he has my name in his accounts and everything so it's not like he had tried to hide our relationship we have been together for 2 years and he starts saying this shit to me like wtf..? Someone give advice. (he's been a Bitch the last 3 months)

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if you're already all over his account why is it important that he posts to you that he posts just one more? why do you need to remind people that you're together? not to come off as rude, but people don't care. i'm following lots of people who are in relationships and i don't look at their photos with their SO and obsess over them. people literally like it and move on. he's not being unreasonable, he just doesn't want to be forced to post ANOTHER pic with you. sure, it's not an unreasonable request, but it's an unreasonable demand. if you want to remind people that you're together, do it on your own account. but it's seriously not a big deal that he doesn't want to, i think you're blowing it way out of proportion. just enjoy the relationship you 2 have together instead of get in fights over you wanting to throw it in other people's faces. that'll get you a one way ticket to single town.

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But why does he need to? If he's done it before I'm sure people know. You honestly sound a little insecure.

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I think it's your issue that something that trivial is important to you lol. Not necessary.

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How old are you? Social media posts should not matter in a relationship. If people want to know if you and your boyfriend are still together, they can ask. He shouldn't be forced to post a picture.

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Why do you want him to prove to people you're still together??? It's nobody's business but you're own. Keep other people out of it.

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Post things on your own account then. I don't know why people need to be reminded that you are still together, no one cares usually.

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Why are you forcing him to put a picture up? You're already all over his account, people already know you're dating, and he very calmly told you he doesn't want to. People really let social media run too much of their lives--you two are together; your relationship should be enough, especially when he's not hiding you

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You should not have to publicize your relationship to be happy. This makes it sound like you are trying to control your boyfriend. He said no and you don't control him.

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My SO and I have been together 11 months and we literally have two pictures on social media. The second one JUST came this weekend. I'm not in your shoes... but I don't quite understand the need to make sure other people remember you're together. Your relationship is between you two. Who cares what others think?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year, he's had no instagrams of him, we aren't Facebook official and he's been on my snapchat twice. Studies have shown those who post less of their relationship are happier in them. Don't care about other people all that matters is YOUR relationship because a relationship is between two people, not every single one of your friends. My boyfriends the same as in he doesn't want to and I completely get that why would you want everyone speculating about your relationship? It's just unnessecary

WHATS UP WITH THIS!!? help!

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