So currently lost my job few months ago and am active looking for one. I clean the house , cook and do laundry and everything else is is needed I carter to him when he gets home, so he feels like he can let do. I think g at but lay down and leave all his shit around and I have to be his maid, when I was working he use to help around the hous know he doesn't , I have three kids they not that little but he seems. It to care to do nothing in the house no more, he will step in a piece of shot and not clean it