So, I know this might sound very odd to a lot of people, but masturbation is something I've never particularly enjoyed. For some reason I don't get stimulation from it most of the time and I very very rarely can get off that way, even with someone else doing it to me. A lot of the time it almost feels as stimulating as if I was rubbing my arm hoping for an O. The same goes with oral, although oral does feel nice, it's just not something that really gets me going and doesn't get me off usually. Does anyone else experience this and has anyone found a method or practice that helps them enjoy masturbation or receiving oral more? My husband doesn't mind it too much but I think there are times where he wishes he could pleasure me in those ways and I have a lot of frustration with not being able to pleasure myself as well. Thank you all in advance!