My fiancé and I have only been trying for 3 months to have our second child.. I know it's silly to expect it to happen so fast but I'm feeling like it will never happen.... I'm also tired of timing my sex...it's beginning to feel like a job Lol...I also had gastric bypass 3 years ago and I was told that your changes of getting pregnant easy are higher after the surgery... anyone else have the surgery and then a baby?