So in a semi heated conversation with some friends the other day I said how I wanted my husband at the baby shower. I want to take this journey with him every step of the way the most I can. He hasn't missed a baby appointment and when I feel down and lately just large at 15 weeks he says I'm not large I'm beautiful. But everyone is saying very judgementally how men never go to baby showers it's not there place women go alone women do this women do that like back when in my opinion when women were slaves to men. I'm still hurt by it cuz nothing my husband and I have done had been traditional. Is it really that bad to want him at our baby shower to enjoy it with me for our child?