It makes me feel a bit of an outsider.  I have a very low sex drive. It was always low but having a baby in March just killed it. I have zero desire to make love to my husband. Nill. We've had sex twice in six months. He's getting desperate but I'm just not interested in sex. Does anyone else feel like this?? How can folk with kids find the time and energy for sex?! What advice do you guys have? I want to have a sex life but feel no desire at the moment. Help!!