is my bf normal??

So we decided that we'd stop using birth control and 'see what happens'.
I got way more invested in it than 'see what happens' immediately started tracking everything!! Spoke to my bf, told him the 'see what happens' approach isn't working for me....I need to be actively trying. He agreed that we would. So I explained it was my fertile window etc, that night we BD...I said right we need this every second night.... we've not done it since this was a week ago. If I try to instigate BD he'll move my hand, give me a cuddle and say good night. 
I keep reading these posts where the guy loves that they have to BD so often.....😞
This see what happens was his idea!! Why doesn't he want it now???