My husband has been sick since December, during the worst parts of it I did everything I could think of to make his life easier and alliviate as much as I could (I even said "okay" to him staying with his parents and leaving me at home, alone. Because that's what he thought would help him during worst parts of his sickness). He has since gotten much better but he gets upset with me and yells at me saying I'm not a compassionate person because I don't break myself trying to do everything for him like I did during the worst parts of it and he is constantly threatening to leave and go back to his parents. Because of all this I have started questioning if I really am not a compassionate person. I really feel like crap about myself and I just needed to vent a little.