shaving/waxing

Anda
Hey girls. I am in a desperate need of advice. Lately, my bikini area looks horrendous. I'm talking ingrown hairs, bumps, red marks, you name it i have it. I haven't done anything than usual shaving wise and this is driving me insane. I've tried exfoliating, doesn't work. It looks horrible and now that the hot weather is here I can't go to the pool because I looks like I have a million stds. Anyone knows a cream or something that could help? 
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