Anyone else not getting any help after baby is born? 😡

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I'm just putting this here to vent and see if anyone else is in the same situation 
So my husband has a job now where he would be able to be home for a week after I have our daughter which it great because I could be facing a c-section and we also have a 16 month old now today he pretty much tells me he's taking a new job he was offered hours 7-7 and some Saturdays (after I already said please don't change jobs untill after the baby's born) now I know with him changing jobs he won't get any home time and will more then likely be going back to work before I even get out of the hospital! I think if I deliver vaginally I'll be able to manage but I know if I have to get a c-section I'm going to be so screwed with no help anyone facing, been or going through this?

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My Husband will be leaving about a month after baby is here for boocamp... I'm due in 6 days and he's leaving august 7th. I'm terrified and sad but we gotta realize that in the end everything will workout and we'll be fine. They're just trying to provide and do the best they can for us

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My husband gets 2 weeks paid leave, but after that he's back to overnights and sleeping all day, so I will be right here with you mama. This is baby #5 and school will start for my 3 oldest which helps but I will still gave my 2 year old, so naps are out of the question .
We can do this, stay in touch, xoxoxo

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My husband won't be staying home with me to help after a c section. Sometimes, we have to take opportunities as they come and not wait until someone else is comfortable with it. If he's taking on another job he must feel like it's a good opportunity. I would be grateful that my husband is putting in so much effort to provide for our family. I'm sure you will be just fine either way you deliver.

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I'm on my 6th baby and have never had help after a new baby...like ever. From anyone. I just struggle through.

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I didn't have any help at all after my c-section and I did just fine. It's doable! Although, I didn't have another child at the time so I'm waiting to find out how it will go this time around with a 3 year old at home too. Good luck!

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I'm on #5 and my husband only gets the time off while I'm in the hospital. I have a 10,5,3 and 1 yr old (that also still breastfeeds) I'll be having my third csection and right into the new school year. I'm definitely going to be struggling, but my husband is never home and always at work.

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My husband kind of just told me he might be working when the agreement was for him to stay with baby after my 4 weeks is up, but he just wants to bring in money so I'm not that upset. Try not to get upset about it, at least he is working and trying u know? Some women don't have that. 
Some how u will make it work. :)

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Our first baby will be expected in October and idk how it's going to be but thank god i have the best mom in the world to help me and guide me. I'm not allowed to do anything now lol Mexican moms will always be over protective ❤️❤️❤️🤰🏻I'm sure my husband will be there too but because I have my mom I'm not so worried about him.

Anyone else not getting any help after baby is born? 😡

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