Idk if it's pregnancy making me bitchy or what but ok here it goes my husband for the last year & a half has had a hard time keeping a job not his fault new managements, & 2 others closed down anyways I had a really good paying job so I basically was the money maker for that year and a half cause even with the jobs he had it was shit pay on top of paying all the bills we also went on 3 vacations within this year and a half that I paid for they were short like weekends but to tropical islands anyways I also made sure he got whatever and more ok fast forward I'm pregnant high risk and had to be put on bed rest fortunately I didn't blow all my money on vacations lol and have a lot of savings so now my husband has a really good paying job so we decided my savings will only be spent on anything for the baby and a new car when baby comes. Ok so we spend a lot I mean a lottt of money on going out and food and our bills are really high since we live in an upscale loft but he can afford all of this he makes just enough for our spendings & bills yet this months rent is due and he asked can he take it out the savings I was so upset we agreed he would be responsible with his money and pay the bills after all I did it by myself for a year and a half and then I found out he was sending money to his family behind my back and that's why he didn't have it I'm so upset like what if I didn't have anything saved and relied solely on him this is how irresponsible he would act? Like his family members look like there living better then me I'm super cheap with myself never buying anything unless it's on sale have an old phone and use to spoil him mind you he doesn't spoil me he only pays the necessary and of course going out to eat because I'm pregnant anyways sorry long rant but am I wrong for feeling like he's being unfair ?