Guys- help me understand.

Why the fuck does my man think that him orgasming is more important than me orgasming? There have been plenty of times when he will cum before me and not even finish me off.
And no I don't wanna hear shit about male instinct about getting a women pregnant, whatever the fuck. We're not trying to make kids here, we're fucking. He should emotionally care, I've already told him my feelings and explained why it's unfair. 
He has said "you don't have to cum everytime."
He has also said "I only care if you cum." 
He's a complete hypocrite. 
I swear if he does it one more time I'm gonna be out the door... 
Why doesn't he care that I'm not being sexually satisfied by him everytime? I give him extra blow jobs all the time and I can't even remember the last time he ate me out just because. I want honest answers.