Me and my husband are still newly weds, only been married 2 months. We've lived together for over a year and a half though. Ever since we got married, people have been asking us Non Stop when we're going to have a baby. What they don't know is that we've been actively TTC for almost a year. It's just like a little stab every time someone asks us when we're going to have a kid. Like you can just have one, I get so torn up over it I've had to leave the room before.