My first lesbian relationship- new(er) at 3 1/2 months! She teases me so easily, and is EXTREMELY talented with both mouth and hands. I'm so much more touchy and lovey, constantly playing with her hair and scratching her back. She wants more sexual favors from me, but I want more physical attention from her. I'm conflicted on how to bring up these issues without making it seem like we want to change each other. Practice makes perfect but we're both so insecure/shy. Help!!