Really, negative family opinions!?!

My first post ever. But i cant just post this anywhere and feel that I can here. So my bf and I are ttc we have 2 kids 9 and 10... WE only WE decided to add to our family. We are not married but plan to in a couple years. Anyway, some family members (meaning 1 or 2) were talking behind my back saying that we have no business having a bb and we need to get our shit together and that I'm jealous because I want their life and wish I was a fire wife. Btw, no one knows we are ttc. I feel that it's not anyone's business. But I've just so irritated about what was said and in my face these person's are so fake and I'm over the b.s.. I don't give a fuck what they think but to think that when the bb is here then they're going to wanna be around. Umm.. Please don't touch my bb. Thoughts???