Step dad.
Today is Father's Day, of course I'm sure everyone here knows that. I just wanted to talk about Step dads, well mine.
Today, was an amazing and terrible day.
I hugged and tried my hardest to make him feel as loved as possible, but knowing we don't have a lot of money I felt bad about not being able to get him anything but my affection. I hope that was enough, because he is an amazing dad. He didn't have to stay, and he could have complained and left us because we're not actually his problem.
Unlike my real dad, who I reluctantly sent a "Happy Father's Day" text to. And unlike my step father who happily took affection over gifts, complained to his mentally unstable 16 year old. He complained about paying 23 dollars in child support for his twin daughters he usually sees in the summer.
My step dad pays for the trip because he lives across the country from us and is just as poor as us.
My real dad made it a compilation, listing things he doesn't have. He listed how many mouths he had to feed and how much he pays for. He made his UNSTABLE daughter feel like she wasn't worth the small about of money that he sends to them.
He threatened to go to court, and I had to bring in my step dad.
After all of that, I felt like I ruined Father's Day for my whole family, and I cried for hours and my step dad and my mother were there to comfort me when my dad was there only to take out his anger. And he still only took hugs and a "happy Father's Day" without complaining.
(Sorry if it was so long, I needed to rant about what my dad did today. He's never there and only cares about himself and I just wanted to say happy Father's Day.. but apparently I couldn't do that..)
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