My grandma has a tendency to put me in sports that I have played in the past. When at that time it was fun, but now it’s like I’ve changed. I used to do cheer 6th-8th, when I was going through my girly girl stage, but now I’m about 2 be a Sophomore in high school. I’ve changed since then, I feel like I’ve grown up more and I don’t wanna do it. While my grandma wants me to, to her I’m 100% doing it, but that’s not what I want. At the beginning of my Freshman year my old cheer couch was mad at me cuz I didn’t join and she really wanted me to. Also she made me promise that i will tryout for next year. But a lot can happen in a year, I changed, and I don’t feel like joining. My grandma’s daughter did everything in high school. I mean everything, she did every single sport, some she did while doing others, she also did band, flags, and shields, all of it. My grandma wants me to do sports for all my high school years, but I dont know if I want to. It also didn’t help that my grandma wasn’t allowed to do cheer when she was growing up. Not even allowed in high school, even tho she really wanted to but her mom said no. So What should I do, if I dont wanna do it? I asked her and she said no you’re doing it and then when I tried to tell her no I’m not…. and she walked away and said no we are done talking about this you’re doing it. So I dont know what to do? I’m not doing something that I don’t wanna do, I’m done doing sports that she wants me and tells me to do. I’m not letting her make those decisions for me, I’ve let her dictate what I do, for far too long.

Plz help me, What should I do?