feeling like a failure first time mom

My little girl is almost 14 weeks old. She USED to sleep from 6:39-12:30/1. Eat and go back to sleep to 3 and then up hourly past that. I was fine with that!! But now she up hourly past 10:00. I feel like a failure because I must be doing something wrong. All these things I read say I started her in bad habits or something and I feel awful. She sleeps in her crib in our room and is ebf. I have a constant bedtime routine with her. at 5 I end up pulling her into bed with me. I'm hoping it's just the 3 month growth spurt but it's been going on for over a week. Am I doing something wrong?? Is anyone else in the same boat??