It took me 4 years to convince my husband to have a baby (he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship). I always wanted two kids, but decided I would be fine with just one. I got pregnant and he was thrilled and said that we should have more right away. I got used to the idea and we decided that as soon as we had our baby we would try for another.

The plan was also for me to start my own in home day care so I could stay home with the baby. Thankfully I didn't quit my job because my maternity leave ran out and I didn't have any kids signed up for daycare. I've been back to work for 6 weeks and I still cry while I'm there. Thankfully he is with my aunt so I get lots of updates throughout the day, but it really doesn't make it any easier!

My baby is almost 4 months and my husband has only had sex with me twice. I think he's changed his mind about having another baby. My doctor told me that it's best to wait 12-18 months before getting pregnant anyway, but I got so used to the idea of having babies close in age that now I'm disappointed.

Any other momma's have babies older than mine and still struggling at work? Also, anybody else have husbands get cold feet about another baby after theirs is born? Also, tips for getting our sex life back?! I'm dying here! haha