I have always had a very high sex drive. Im a Scorpio and i like things kinky. Ill be up for anything and everything except for a threesome. I have all these sexual fantasy's and i cant fulfill them because he is so closed minded. He is my FIRST and ONLY guy i have been with. And he has been with over 60 different girls( thank god he doesnt have aids or stds) the only position he does is missionary...sometimes he switches to doggy but only for a second then changes back to missionary. I get on top sometimes but i dont last long...(i got a ghetto booty and that thang is heavy😂) im just so bored!! He doesnt pull my hair..choke me..he doesnt like to eat me out or finger me...although i give him plenty of bjs. Recently ive wanted him to stick a finger in my butt🙊🙈 or atleast massage it..but everytime i guide his hands towards there he jerks his hands back. He doesnt even hardly make noises during sex. He is just very..Good..and i want him to be bad😳 and its very frustrating. Everytime i try to dirty talk him he shuts me down. He laughed at me when i bought lingerie...and im not fat, i consider myself to be good looking. He made me feel stupid. And i thought he would like it since he was staring at all the naked models on the lingerie package...im so fustrated..how can i get him to open up..i mean ive been with him for 4 years and we have a daughter. Honest opinions please.