Even from people in the BDSM community. I've read all the books yes. Personally there are much better authors that can write more realistic portrayals. I've had this quote on some of my older posts. And I've seen it on so many! Even with slight BDSM. It drives me insane. I mean those books make me sick, my Master wanted to throw them away but they are books and we cherish books in this house. There are so many times that I'm sure most woman/men in a BDSM somewhat kinky relationship experience something similar to a book that's been written. But ever since that book came out it's a huge omg 50 shades! Get real if your a slave or sub like myself or a domme you'll understand or should why that book is so disgusting. We don't even talk about it in our local community. There are other authors and books we will discuss at munches. As well as events that are coming up. 

I've been devoured in the front seat of my van at a concert. 

At the drive in in the back of the van with the hatch wide open! THAT WAS INCREDIBLE!!!! 

In the backyard on the trampoline/ground/pool at all times of day/night

In my in laws basement(finished) and living room while everyone was on the deck. 

Fingered at a wedding while eating dinner.

Not to mention on every surface in my home.

I've been tied up bent over my couch tied to anything we could use

Over the counter/washer/dishwasher 

In the laundry room. 

AND MUCH MORE

Hell if my Master wants my body I'm not going to say no unless there are children that could be witness to Masters spanking,choking, hair pulling, deprivation/humiliation(good ways) etc... 

 

We practice some blood play, orgasm denial, eye restriction, sound restriction, rope play, sensory play and much more etc. 

Is my sex life stealing or copy and pasting from books? No! 

The other night I was surprised. I asked my Master if he would shave my downstairs it's the only part of my body I can not safely do at 35.6 weeks. Since Master demands it be shaved I asked him and said that if he wouldn't I couldn't any more bc I've cut it every time for the last few weeks. He did it was terrifying (even though Master shaves himself) then it became a huge turn on for Master and myself. Which then scared me, bc my clit was swelling and Master  had a razor there. When Master finished shaving my downstairs he cleaned it so carefully, then went and devoured it with his mouth like he hadn't tasted me in forever. I had to stay silent or I'd be punished and everything would stop. After Master fucked me so hard and rough with no toys, it was incredible. I'm still shocked we didn't end up having our son that night. 

My point is there's always going to be a kinky read or story somewhere, why does that book still get brought into it? What about Maya Banks,Kresley Cole etc... their awesome authors who have better portrayals of a D/s relationship not an abusive, sad excuse. 

I hope all you community members understand. I'm not just ranting and complaining.