Kink issues

Amanda
So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now. I've told him how I like to be submissive and I like daddy dom, or just dominate stuff. He hates being called daddy which is fine, but he doesn't do the dominate stuff either. Our sex life is really boring for me. I was always with guys who had the same kinks as me and knew more about sex. I love my boyfriend and we're trying to have kids but I really want a better sex life...he won't even eat me out because he said it's gross. Does anyone have any idea what I should do? We've talked about it before but I don't think he listens very well...