Hate when ppl ask about virginity

I really hate seeing posts about virginity or when anyone asks me when I lost my v card...when I was 12 I was essentially raped and that's how I lost my virginity...barely in 6th grade. Fresh out of elementary school...and there was my 22 year old long lost brother who I hadn't seen since I was 3 having sex with me... :( it really sucks. I wish I had an awesome story to tell that is romantic or funny...I would rather have lost it to some asshole first boyfriend. But I didn't... it was stolen from me .. reading posts about everyone telling their unique stories gets me so sad. I'm not asking for them to stop. I can't and don't want to do that... I'm just venting out how I feel I guess... wish things were different but you can't change the past.