Feeling unwanted

My husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have 2 daughters and I want another baby but can't seem to get him to have sex with me anymore. He is always too tired. I am beginning to wonder is there someone else. I am lucky if I get sex once a month. He says he wants another kid but I don't believe him. I don't know what to do. I am not happy in the marriage anymore.