I've always heard once you get pregnant it's easier the next time. My first pregnancy it only took a month to concieve. I'm getting frustrated/stressed/worried... not sure what the emotion is, maybe feeling of failure. Pressure from family too doesnt help, not like you can go around saying "im trying!". Baby#1 is almost 4yrs old now, is it harder now cause we waited so long? I've never taken birth control, haven't used a condom in 8-9years (developed an allergy)... our birth control has always been "pull out method". We been trying to conceive for the last 6months, we have had sex practically everyday sometimes multiple times a day. I have an amazing husband that says it will happen when it's time. Guess I'm just looking for some insight. Thanks ladies!