Here it goes, my little sister says she is trans. She said she feels like a boy and the very idea of bras and panties make her uncomfortable. The thing about that is, is that I think she's trying to be something she's not. I'm not against the LGBTQ community at all, but I think my little sister is trying to follow the crowd. She was completely ok with being identified as a girl until Caitlyn Jenner came out and suddenly one of her friends come out and now she's coming out. Whether her friends are trans or not I don't care, I just don't want her to spend all her teen years believing this idea that she should be a boy only to go into aldulthood confused on what is a boy or girl. BUT then on the other side, if she actually is feeling this way I don't what her to feel she's any less important or loved because of it. This may be ignorance, but this is coming from a straight fully secure female who never doubted her identity or sexuality. No one ever needed to tell me I was a female or attracted to men, for me it was just natural. But how do I support my little sister, who just turned 14, without pushing her toward either side. As I said before, I don't actually think she is sure herself, I think she's following the crowd.  We've had many conversations about what it means to be a boy or girl in her definition, and because she's not so sure of her answer ( she alsways says something different when we talk) it makes me believe that she's not actually sure of this either.But if she is I want to support her in a way that is healthy. I know I sound really transphobic, but I just don't want her to regret her teen years or not understand what identity is.