LOSE WEIGHT OR HES LEAVING⁉️‼️😩😕😥

I am dating a wonderful older man (I'm 26 he's 38). We were friends for almost 8 years and we finally decided to give "us" a chance. It's only been a month since entering a relationship with him. I am a big girl (5'4 200lbs) which he has always embraced...or so I thought. I have struggled with weight loss my entire life and for some it's easy for me it's a hectic journey. 
Last night as I was talking about one of the new OITNB episodes and changing into my pjs he interrupted me and said, "I think you should start walking". I was taken aback because this came out of nowhere. So I replied, "okay i can do that". He then went on and said, "yeah I just don't want to lose the spark between us". I couldn't help but feel extremely insecure. As I stood there naked, jiggly, with stretch marks, and already insecure the man that I fell in love with spoke on my flaw that I desperately wanted ppl to ignore. He proceed to have sex with me but couldn't maintain his erection 😩 I felt humiliated! As he rolled over and didn't finish I cried on the bathroom until he fell asleep. 
I want to have the "are you losing interest in me" conversation but I am afraid of hearing the truth. I am often called dramatic and analytical when it comes to overly sensitive topics for me. 
Should I have this conversation with him? Should I listen to his advice and lose the weight in order to save my relationship? Any advice would help me...
Sincerely, 
A confused woman 
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