Husband asked why i dont moan during sex

First off my husband and I have been married a year. Our sex life is horrible.. sex is maybe 2 times a week and it's just a hit it quit it for him. He just rubs on my butt and then pulls my pants down in the back then does his thing until he comes... So why would I moan?? It's not about intimacy or passion it's about him. I have talked,cried,gotten angry,given the silent treatment... I really don't know what else to do. He needs a class to teach him about being a husband. He doesn't spend any one on one time with me he's not affectionate, he doesn't kiss me unless it's a quick peck and honestly he thinks everything is fine. I only receive oral sex maybe once a month which is how I orgasism. Last Sunday (not this past one but June 18th) was the first time in just short of two months because he says it takes me to long to orgasism (about 10 mins) there are so many days I think..🤔💭 I can't live like this the rest of my life... Then I remember I took the vows that said for better or worse. Forever could be a long time😨😩😭