So, who else is absolutey sick of hearing this. Most ppl dont TRY to have kids. Some people are just lucky enough to get knocked up by accident. Which is crazy to me since you have a 25% chance every month. But anyways!! "stop trying it'll happen when it happens" yeah duhhh susan i know that but when it's something you want more than anything it's kind of hard to sit back and be like "eh whatever, it'll eventually happen." Like how am i supposed to NOT try? I want to know when im ovulating. I want to get tests run to make sure i don't have PCOS or fertility issues. I want to know it all, so i can prepare for it. But the worst thing about it...is 90% of these people asked me & my husband "So, when are Y'all gonna have kids?" ANOTHER question that gets on my dang nerves. Or how about the "you're still young, you have plenty of time." I know i can't be the only one. I'm so fed up with everyone (friends, family, strangers) telling me what i should or shouldnt do. What i don't mind is the ones who give friendly advice on what i should try to do to conceive. I will be 25 in 6 months & have been married 3 years in September. We are christians and believe God has a plan. I know he will bless us with a child. BUT i just wish people understood it's not just as simple as "eh forget about it..stop trying...you'll get pregnant soon enough...stop rushing." Wishing baby dust on all of you future fed up with people telling you to stop trying so hard mamas out there. TTC#1