hoping it's my month I'm getting symptoms 3 days before af

So the past week I've been getting pregnancy symptoms like feeling sick and just about to throw up. Cramping here and there and I usually spot 6 days before af with brown discharge and I have seen anything yet and sore breasts  🙏🏻 tmi ( we even had sex and that didn't bring on anything so I'm hoping it's our month. I'm scared to test though