IUI low sperm

Brianna • 26. Married. Happy. TTC #1. 1 miscarriage, 3 failed IUIs. Male factor infertility. Starting IVF Summer 2020. Foster mama.
So we went into our first IUI, I was so hopeful because I was finally ovulating on my good side this month! We had two mature follicles and low and behold we find out that my husbands sperm was low count and average motility :( 4.1 million post wash. They did the iUI anyways because it's the last month with fertility coverage but I already feel like we are out. Success rates are so low for sperm counts less than 10 million :(
Anyone out there have any advice or any successes?? We had no idea he had low sperm because his previous analysis a year ago was off the charts amazing. We can never catch a break.