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Me and my SO have been together almost 3 years, 2 kids, .. jw do you guys think it's odd or bad we have NEVER said I love you or talked about marriage 😬

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Absolutely odd

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So commutation is nonexistent in your relationship?

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I've been with my SO for 2 years. We haven't said it either. I don't want to say it first because I don't want him to feel pressured to say it and I also know I'd be so very sad if he wasn't ready to say it back.  We do say 'I care about you'. I have to admit, it bothers me sometimes. But then again, I believe in actions speaking louder than words and his actions do tell me he's serious about our relationship and he's very invested. We make plans for the future, we talk about what our life might look like after 20 years. And he's the first person I've ever felt I actually want to have a baby with. Same for him. He's almost 35 with no kids and never been married. That's really hard to find in my country and I'm so happy I found him. So I've asked him how come he hasn't had kids (because I know he always thought he'd have kids by now) and he said he didn't meet the right person before. 
Sorry for the novel. What I'm trying to say is that while it would be nice to hear him say he loves me, I'm not going to leave just because he hasn't told me that yet. So I would advise you to look at the bigger picture. Think about how he's treating you, how he talks to you around other people, so you make plans for the future together and also if YOU see your future with him.

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Not abnormal
Not weird
Not anything!

The funny thing is that you don't need to say I Love You to anyone because love talks in a variety of ways. Verbal communication is just a small factor.

You can say I Love You in many, many ways! 
If I had it my way I'd hardly say I Love You to my SO because I don't feel the need to repeatedly say it all the time. My devotion and commitment should do the talking. I think once a week or once every couple days is when I do it. I do it when there's a time my man needs to hear it. That's it. They are just words and after awhile they lose their meaning.

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Some things don't need to be said to be known. And marriage isn't something everyone wants these days. It could just be normal for you. If you're happy that's what matters. If you feel the words need to be said, then say them. ☺️

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Same with my sister and her boyfriend. They have been together for almost three years and have never said i love you and they look madly in love 😄

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