Me and my SO lost our virginty together...

So me and my SO of 4 years lost our virginity to eachother. I want to be tied up/blindfolded and fucked, but but i dont know if would be interested in taking kink to the next levels...i want to ask but i dont know how i should....or if i should. Like how do i approach this. We do roleplay/choking/ect..but like i want him to TAKE OVER!! I dont want him to ask me i want him to just DO IT!! But dont know how to communicate with him. Hes very stubborn and dont know what he would think about it. But like i said we lost our virginity to eachother so..its not like he has already done something like this before.