Sneaking out of my boyfriends house

So lately I've been having boyfriend troubles.... and well let's just say today i wanted to you know spark up some flames with some sex , but all i got was a hard shove off and an elbow to the temple(complete accident since he was asleep) . It's been a while in that department with both my boyfriend and I. Birth control has taken a toll on my sex drive and emotions , but I'm trying to save my relationship. All I get from this guy is a makout sesh and a quick vagina rub and he's already trying to stick it in??? But before he used to be so romantic but now he just gets his satisfaction and done.